Previously I wrote about attracting a romantic partner.  So let's say that you found the person. Now what?  The best thing to do is to approach the relationship with a giving mindset.  When most people enter into relationships, they usually wonder what they can get out of the relationship.  On the contrary, you should approach the relationship with, "what can I give?"  In the beginning you are getting to know each other and enjoying the early stages of dating. Enjoy that! Don't over analyze and just enjoy yourself.  Be yourself and open up.  Did that hit a chord?  Open up! Yes, don't be afraid.  When I first started dating my now husband, I chose to be brave and told him about where I was in my life and what I was looking for.  Not an ultimatum, just gave him information of where I was emotionally and mentally, and let him decide if he wanted to be a part of it. I was scared to share this with him because I thought, if he's not in the same place, I can lose him.  Thankfully he was open to what I had to say and we continued dating. 

We all have a past and it can always be scary to open up to a person.  Let's say the person you're dating is not in the same place. Wouldn't it be better to find out early and part ways so that you can find the person that is truly meant to be with you? 

So be fearless, open up, and enjoy the process. You have nothing to lose and only love to gain! 

Happy September, everyone! I'm so happy to be writing again... it's been a busy couple of months. I have been fortunate to meet new people this year and enjoy listening to their stories, their goals, and coach them to new heights! One theme remains prevalent through: relationships! So I thought I'd write about my experience in this arena. This is what worked for me. At the end of the day, you have to be true to yourself and do what feels right, not what any book, rules, or person tell you to do. 

There are several areas to relationships so I thought I'd split up this blog into a few posts. So this first one will focus on attraction. 

Looking back now, I see how I was in a true state of surrender.  Many women tell me that they are ready for relationships and are really putting themselves out there, yet can't seem to meet the right man. I truly believe that in order to meet "the one" you need to be in a space of surrender. What does this mean, you ask  It doesn't mean you give up, rather, you release all the energy that you have been putting in to trying so hard.  Surrender your desire to the Universe, and the right person will truly find their way into your life, and you to theirs. It means you should go out with your friends and not spend an drop of energy thinking... Maybe I'll meet "the one" tonight.  Go out, enjoy life. Don't think about HOW you will meet this person.  Instead, you can just trust that the Universe has your back. When your energy is calm, confident, and happy... trust me, the right person will appear! When my husband and I look back at the space we were in when we met, we both see how we were in a space of surrender. He was enjoying life, he was going out, and he never really gave too much thought to meeting anyone. In fact, he had already somewhat resigned himself to be truly happy being single for the rest of his life. We were both very happy being single and were never expecting to meet anyone, let alone get married! We were in the same space in life and we energetically attracted each other.  Skeptical? Well.... my husband and I had actually met in passing a year prior, but we were both in very different places in our lives. We never connected and our paths did not cross again until the following year when we met (again) and began dating. 

You can't plan this, so just let it to, stop trying, and LIVE. 

What can you do different than now to attract the love of your life? Leave comments below.